April 1, 2010

What's in a game?

What's in a game?
Some may answer 'Oh, nothing much, it is just a game', while others exclaim: 'Everything!!'

I have basically seen people falling into these 2 categories often. And that is when I came up with this theory:


One of the sure-shot methods of finding out how a person is, that too real-quick, is to involve him/her in a game.


Any game would do. Be it Pictionary or Badminton, Cricket or Monopoly. It esp. helps if you are in the same team.


We get to know a lot about the person - how he (generalizing, replace it with she if you want to) reacts to failure, how he draws up strategies, how he treats his team members, does he dominate or just lurk in the shadows, do your wavelengths match? And much much more!


It can be applied in so many scenarios you know - like finding that special someone or just another team member! Yeah, yeah asking someone to play a game at the first meeting/interview sounds really odd. And it doesn't work that way. But at least make it a point to involve him in some game at some point of time. You will be surprised!


Common knowledge or enlightenment? Let me know!





10 comments:

Sandhya said...

Hey..

Is this write-up after effect of the "Fun Event " ;) ????

Krishna said...

Enlightenment !!

Prasapat said...

I just couldn't help wondering about the line "like finding that special someone" :PPP

vinu said...

@sandhya: partly inspired by that..yes :)
@krishna: oh cool! :) try it out but i can't predict the outcome..u can totally blame me though ;-)
@pras: seriously!?! partha?!?!?! what's that..ur new nickname or something??!?!?! now I need some enlightenment!!! :)

Anonymous said...

reading the first few lines.. i thought u watched "Teen patti"!!!

- karthik

Samparka said...

someone talking about games :) ... life has def changed in 1.6 years ;)

its not always true to generalize things with games but ya to an extent you can know him but not "HER" ;)

vinu said...

@kartha: :) I havn't yet! did u like it?
@sudks: nothin has changed kaNo..just an observation that's all :)

Anonymous said...

@vinutha: no way! couldn't take that risk.. read the stick-cartoons in 'the vigil idiot'.. awesome one!!

- karthik

vinu said...

@kartha: hehe! ya they are always awesome!!!

Prasapat said...

Nothing spl. No nicknames and all. I always liked the names Partha and Dhruv. So just picked one :)